I don’t see or feel the hijab is oppressive because 1. it is a free choice you make as a muslim (whether to cover or not to cover) and 2. because it makes you feel good to be covered – you feel more respectful and dignified rather than exposed. It’s strange; you almost have to wear it and experience it yourself to know what it is like.

Now, in regards to oppression: if you are being FORCED to wear hijab, then I would feel that that is a sort of oppression, and no one is supposed to be FORCED into any act of Islam. So for women who MUST wear it (instead of choosing to wear it) – then I can see that would feel very oppressive. But that is an entirely different set of issues – in Islam it is not allowed to force religion to anyone else. Even our own daughters – we are not allowed to force them to wear hijab. I’m not saying that it doesn’t happen – but it is not right.

There are different materials and different ways of wearing it that can help with the heat factor. And no doubt that in the middle of the summer, it can be hot sometimes. Sometimes some Muslims make the reference that while we may suffer in the heat, the heat on earth is nothing compared to Hell. I don’t really like this reference because it makes it seem as though you will go to Hell if you don’t wear it. I don’t think that’s exactly what it is meant, though. I think it just means that we Muslims may suffer in certain ways here on Earth, but that in the afterlife is when we shall see our reward if Allah wills it.

There is an interesting blog – http://ummmalaak.wordpress.com/ in which the author is adjusting to life in niqab (the type of hijab where you cover your whole face except the eyes). It just chronicles a little of her experiences with wearing it and the personal struggles that some of us go through when adjusting to life with the veil.

I have been guilty of seeing women in hijabi and instantly relating it with oppression – but I can see here that it’s not always viewed that way. I’m glad to see this different viewpoint, but please tell me – does it get warm when you are covered? That’s the “oppression” that I’ve always wondered about. I hope that’s not disrespectful to ask.

Jana’s right, there are thousands of women in the same boat as you. My littlest sis just started wearing it and loves not having to do her hair every day and how much respect she gets from guys. My other two sisters still don’t feel ready.

Sister Aischa August mentions loss of identity and this was important to me too, I think its easier if you keep your style and if you project a strong sense of self that you can still put across despite people’s stereotypes of hijab – after all you get fashionista hijabi’s, studious-looking hijabi’s, indy-hijabi’s and even gangsta-hijabi’s – which are you?

That’s what I have heard: that the first step is difficult but once you make that leap it becomes much easier. I feel like this is one of the ways Allah makes things easier for us when we strive to do good. It’s like that saying about how if you take one step towards Allah, then He will take ten steps towards you.

Your blog is great – all the hijab tips and how to wear it and everything! Great site!

I just stumbled on your blog accidentally and wanted to let you know that you are not alone inshallah! There are thousands of Muslimahs going through the same things as you. The first step is always the hardest, but once you are past that first hurdle, things get a lot easier. With Ramadan coming up, it would be a great time to start with your imaan high!

And if you ever need any ideas or inspiration for hijabi-friendly clothing, do come and visit my blog :)

All the best,

Jana

As for hijab – I worry too much about what other people think, I need to be worried about what Allah thinks. That’s an issue for me alot when it comes to Islam, it’s something I struggle with. When I’m at home, if I pray or anything that brings me closer to Allah, I feel strong enough to do anything, but then when it comes to other people seeing me or knowing me, it’s more difficult.

But insha’allah soon I will be brave enough to just wear it…I feel I am on the right track regardless. Thanks for your comments.